Those Snicker® commercials say that you’re just not yourself when you’re hungry. So…what or FOR WHOM are you hungry for?
Those Snicker® commercials say that you’re just not yourself when you’re hungry. So…what or FOR WHOM are you hungry for?
The very best way to help SURVIVORS (I say survivors because it is a better word than “victims”) of Harvey RIGHT NOW, is stay away, listen, and donate money. In the arena of Disaster Response I am now a seasoned veteran and speak out of and from my personal experiences. I am not so dumb as to think everyone has had the same experiences I have had, so I allow room for anyone to disagree with me. And please feel free to share your experiences in the comments section.
Within every disaster are the disasters that happen after the event, which can be as catastrophic, IF NOT MORE THAN the original event. Here are the disasters that happen AFTER the natural disaster, and they are caused by human beings, well-meaning human beings, but these add to the problems and do not help:
With that said (and believe me, I could say a lot more!), what IS the Best Way To Help the SURVIVORS of Harvey RIGHT NOW? Glad you asked me that! Here’s the Best Way To Help:
And remember to love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the praise and glory goes to Him! Oh, and stop calling the “victims” and call them who they are: SURVIVORS!
OK, I admit it. Sometimes I don’t keep up with all the current events. The past 7 days, though, I have a good, a very good excuse. But then, don’t we all? Well, I feel like mine has some merit. Last Wednesday I had a heart ablation from which I am recovering very well. Then there’s this thing called HARVEY. As our tribe’s (some call them denominations) Disaster Response & Recovery Coordinator there is much work I have to do in this role as a Bond Servant of Jesus.
This morning I checked my Twitter feed and was seeing all this stuff about The Nashville Statement. It was a diatribe of hate, so I decided to read it for myself rather than read what others said about. I know, how dumb can I be! Wanting to read it for myself rather than trust all those progressive voices telling me what it means. I saw some tweets comparing the writers and signers as supporters of the American Nazi movement. Well, I read it and was left scratching my head wondering, “Where is the hate? Did Google lead me to the wrong site?”
So I went back to those Tweets. Aren’t they always reliable and truthful? I found this link to an article written by John Pavlovitz titled The Nashville Statement (A Plain Language Translation). Well I thought, “OK! I love plain language translations. Here I can get to the heart of the real NASHVILLE STATEMENT, not the wrong one Google gave me.” Well, there I go thinking again. And thus why I am writing this morning.
His alleged “plain language translation” was simply a rehash of all the hate speech I had seen on Twitter. After careful review and reflection of John’s comments and other similar reviews, I have reached an assessment, call it conclusion, not only about many progressives, but our culture in general. And here it is: “If you do not agree with me and my views then you automatically hate me and others like me.”
Really, John, et.al.? I realize that in the arena of discussion about human sexuality that there is some hate speech going on, especially in the name of the Body of Christ. And to those who express hate speech and identify yourself as (an alleged) Christian, I say to you, “SHAME, SHAME, SHAME ON YOU! REPENT IMMEDIATELY AND TURN TO GOD!”
I realize a lot of morons, excuse me, “well-meaning people” have taken biblical texts out of context to justify their position and made the Bible say things it doesn’t say. But if one will take the time to see the whole picture of the Bible, there are only 2 stories. The first story is God’s creation and His Intended Design. It was perfect in every way. And in the realm of sexuality it is very clear: God created them biologically male and female, both equally revealing His image. And marriage was defined as 1 husband (a man) and 1 wife (a woman). Together they were to live in perfect relationship with God and together explore God’s creation. Story #1!
The second story begins with the Fall, which introduces into God’s Creation a totally different purpose. The rest of the Bible is the story of God attempting to restore fallen humanity back in His Original Intent and Design and away from this “Fallen” purpose. Now anyone like me, who believes that God is busy setting back right all that we humans have messed up, is simply filled with hate, well John, you are all wrong about that!
Our culture has gone into a moral and spiritual wasteland when anyone with a different view or belief, is labeled HATEFUL! Quite frankly, I’m getting sick of it! But then I remember those words of Jesus: (Matthew 5:44 NLT) “But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you!” I hear a lot of people like John, who label themselves as progressives, pray AGAINST their perceived enemy and all the while calling for love above all. Is it just me that sees the hypocracy of progressives? They rant, rail and pray against their “enemy” while insisting that love should rule the day.
Yes, we are called to love but not at the sacrifice of the Truth. I’ve heard the argument, “What did Jesus say about homosexuality? Nothing, so we shouldn’t.” Well, He didn’t say anything against using meth or cheating on your tax return, or keeping that extra change that the cashier gave you, or a lot of other every day “stuff”. But Peter made the connection in 1 Peter 1:15-16–“15 But now you must be holy in everything you do, just as God who chose you is holy. 16 For the Scriptures say, “You must be holy because I am holy.” And Holy is to be who and what God designed us to be. If that is hate, then maybe you need a new definition of hate.
Love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you, and make sure all the glory goes to Him!
Well, by this time tomorrow, I will have had this experience–my heart burned from the inside, that is. Already had (many times) a heart rhythm similar to the one above. I have 2 choices, well, actually 3 choices.
One choice is to do nothing about it. Well, the doctor said a couple of months ago that it was not life threatening, well at that time it wasn’t and probably not at this time. I could play the odds and see if anything worse happens to me. After all, heart rates that are over 200 beats per minute can’t hurt you, can they?
My second choice would be to take some medicine, probably for the rest of my life. But really, who wants to do that? Haven’t you see all those attorney commercials about the dangers of prescription drugs? Besides, my other cardiologist (who knew there was a difference in cardiologists? I now have one who considers himself like a plumber and another who is considered the electrician) said that the medicine would probably make me feel tired all the time, instead of just after these episodes.
OK, my third choice is to have this procedure called a heart ablation. Ablation–I think that word means “to burn”. Well, Wednesday morning I will report to Huntsville (Alabama) Hospital at 8:00 a.m. And, of course, I will go without my usual coffee so say a prayer for my wife Debbie who will have to put up with me functioning without that wonderful caffeine. Coffee will be the first thing I ask for after the procedure.
My decision to allow Dr. Paul Tabereaux to burn part of the inside of my heart, well, for me that seems like the best choice. Sounds kind of strange to say, “Hey, Doc, would you mind burning some of the inside of my heart? Thanks!” The result should be no more episodes of SPVT and without the side affects and costs of a lifetime of medicine. (So no call to the Law Firm of Bad Drugs & Greedy Attorneys). It should be a permanent fix.
I go through this with complete trust in the hands and skills of Dr. Tabereaux. But what about the Spiritual Heart? Do we ever let the hands and mind that created us access to those problem areas of our spiritual heart? Oh, you don’t have any problems with your spiritual heart? Well, bless your heart! (Look up in a good southern dictionary to see what that phrase really means!)
When we have heart problems, spiritual heart problems like my physical heart issues, they need to be dealt with in the right manner. Ignoring your heart problems won’t make them go away. You might find some temporary relief elsewhere, but the problem still exists and is waiting to come out again at some inopportune moment. So why not allow God to examine your spiritual heart. He can quickly diagnose the problem areas, and can take care of them permanently.
So, if you have a moment, throw up a few prayers for me, and my wife Debbie as she waits all day for this to be over. I definitely need them and you probably need the practice. Oh, and remember: Love God with all your HEALTHY heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him!
I was just thinking this morning. In my world of those who know me, many shudder when I say this. Some even do the face palm thing while shaking their heads wondering to themselves, “Dear Lord, what is this man up to again?” And a few even run and hide. I’m OK with that because I am convinced God gave me a mind–a mind to learn with and a mind to question things–sometimes everything.
I am thinking about that word “TAME” and its partner word “DOMESTICATED”. Somehow, there are those who think that the purpose of a relationship with God is about taming us. There are many tribes (tribes are groups of people with a similar belief system and mindset about God, also known as denominations in some circles) who believe that in order to follow Jesus, we must be tamed. They treat desire as if it were the modern-day equivalent of Biblical times leprosy.
And so this idea of desire is pushed back and beaten down so that respectability can rule and reign. As I was thinking about that word TAME I realized that it rhymes with another word: LAME. So what if we started seeing DESIRE as something to, well DESIRE, to want, to insist on having? Not just any DESIRE, but to have DESIRE for God–for what God is doing–and especially for what God wants us to do!
Can we agree, at least those smart enough to believe in Intelligent Design, that we have been created in God’s image? OK! God has DESIRES. So if HE has DESIRES, why shouldn’t we? Unfortunately many have traded in the God who has Great Desires for a god who is nice and kind and always gentle. In others words, a domesticated god. When something is domesticated it means we have TAMED it for OUR use, to use the way we want.
The True and Living God is neither TAME nor DOMESTICATED. He is wild with DESIRE! Oops, someone just said, “I don’t believe that! Prove it from the Bible!” Okey Dokey, be careful what you ask for; you just might get it, as in this case. God sent a messenger to Eli the priest saying He, God, would take away the priesthood from Eli and his sons and raise up priests who do what, and I quote God, “I DESIRE!” And in Isaiah 55:11–“It (His word) will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I DESIRE and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.” And Jesus said in John 17:24–“Father, I DESIRE that they also whom You gave Me may be with Me where I am, that they may behold My glory which You have given Me; for You loved Me before the foundation of the world.”
Now, when it comes to US, should their be desire? Now David was called a man after God’s own heart. When he selected a worship leader, he chose Asaph. I am sure David, who loved to worship God, wanted someone just as passionate as he. Read these words of Asaph:
24 You guide me with your counsel, leading me to a glorious destiny.
25 Whom have I in heaven but you? I DESIRE you more than anything on earth.
26 My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; He is mine forever. (Psalm 73:24-26 NLT)
Let’s stop being Tame And Lame, and reclaim that word DESIRE. The enemy has used it for too long as a sign of evil. Desire, as God put it in us, is both good and necessary. When we become “tame”, the enemy no longer fears us. He has domesticated us, meaning, we are here for his pleasure and guess what else. His “desires”, desires which are to keep us away from our created purpose and to prevent us from being Warriors. One of the things that makes the enemy tremble with fear and trepidation is when he sees one of God’s Image Bearer’s doing exactly what Asaph wanted, to DESIRE God more than anything else. When God’s designed DESIRE flows through you, the enemy runs and hides. He wants you domesticated, God wants you wild and free as He designed you. If you are not living out your relationship with God with that God-Designed-And-God-Pleasing DESIRE, you have been Tamed And Domesticated by the evil one. And you are just plain old LAME. And that is so sad, so very sad!
Love God with all you heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him and it will as you DESIRE Him more than anything else on earth.
Pray tell, what good is a yo-yo without string? I mean, really? What’s its purpose? Maybe it will make for a good late, late night infomercial? “That’s right folks, a stringless yo-yo. It’s available in 4 stunning colors and for a limited time you can get it for only 4 easy payments of $16.43, plus a reasonable processing fee. But that’s not all, call in the next 17 minutes 14 seconds, we will send you another one in the color of our choice absolutely free, you only pay a separate processing fee. And for just a very limited time, because you know we can’t do this forever, we will reduce it by 1 payment. That’s right, only 3, you heard correctly, 3 payments instead of 4. Call 888-2ABSURD, operators are standing by. Batteries are not included.”
Can anyone out there in Blogland tell me what good is a yo-yo without string? The only thing I can think of is maybe a paper weight or something to throw at somebody who is really annoying you. (If you think of any other purpose, please share in the comments section below.) Right now I hear some of you readers thinking, “Where is he going with this?” (Be forewarned, I do have ESPN). As ridiculous as it is to think of a stringless yo-yo, there is something happening in our culture that is even more than ridiculous, it is disheartening.
Many people have chosen to build their life upon how they feel. They have chosen a purpose based on feelings, but wait, there’s more. They have chosen to identify themselves based on how they feel. A friend was sharing with me that his daughter who was, if I remember correctly, either a kindergarten or first grade teacher who had a parent that came to her at the first of the school year with important information about her child. She told this teacher that one day “he” may come to school as a “she” or may come as a “he”. It just depended on how he was feeling that morning. Not based on biology and plumbing, just on those feelings of the day.
And living this “stringless yo-yo” life is not only being promoted in the arena of human sexuality, it is being lived out in so many, too many human lives. Someone calls you worthless, a failure. That feeling creeps, even comes like a tsunami over you and you live each day believing you are just that and nothing more. You see others have success and lots of “stuff” and you “feel” like you are entitled to it. Feelings!
Let’s say you have a medical condition and you need a specialist. You don’t know one so you find one and make an appointment. You’re first question should be, “Where did you go to school and what special training have you had?” What if their answer was, “Oh, I only graduated high school. But today I feel like a neurologist. Oh wait, now I feel like a proctologist. Where are those gloves?” What would be your response? I’m sure it would be to exit that room like the Roadrunner in those old cartoons.
So why do people make the choice to live their lives based on feelings, either those feelings that have come from deep within or those feelings created by someone’s opinion of them? Living by feelings is like a yo-yo with a string. Up and down, up and down, over here, over there. It’s a roller coaster ride that never ends. And when you accept those “feelings” as your identity or even your purpose in life, the string is removed. You are that stringless yo-yo. But that is not the life you were created and designed for. Your life is much more than a feeling. The song is right, it’s “feelings, nothing more than feelings.”
There is a beauty, strength and design that exceeds those feelings. Solomon shared in Proverbs 14:12, “There is a path before each person that seems right, but it ends in death.“ God has a unique design for you that reflects His image. Go back to the very beginning of the Bible and we can clearly see it. Relationship–Perfect Relationship. Perfect Relationship with Him, self and others. This life is never based on a feeling, but on The Truth, Truth as God defines it.
And if you are living by and through your feelings, I want to take this moment to encourage you to take the time to really know God–His heart and purpose for your life. It’s found in the Bible. Take the time to read it for yourself, without add the interpretations and opinions of others, even mine. Ask the Holy Spirit to join you in this journey to help you understand the big picture, not isolated bits and pieces that will be used to confirm those feelings. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you understand what you are reading, and trust–trust in the God who loves you right where you are. And loves you so much that He doesn’t want you to stay where you are, but to become all the HE sees in you. Even if others don’t see it in you, and especially if you can’t see it in you.
Remember, love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him. And don’t forget that God’s love is not a feeling, but His whole heart, a heart for you.
“But my servant Caleb—this is a different story. He has a different spirit; he follows me passionately.” (Numbers 14:24 The Message)
I absolutely love the Story of Caleb. Read Numbers 13 and 14 and how can anyone NOT love Caleb? I love this man so much I just finished a sermon series about him. There are so many things about this guy and I could preach a year or more just on him, if The Spirit would allow me. I am blown away by how The Message translates God’s opinion of Caleb. (You do know that God has an opinion about you, don’t you?) “But my servant Caleb—this is a different story.”
How was his story different? God sent 12 spies, leaders actually, into the Promised Land with very specific orders. But it was never in their directive to determine if they could succeed at occupying and conquering the land. But 10 of these alleged leaders exceeded their directives and made a decision that wasn’t theirs to make. “We can’t do it! We’re whipped! Lets get a new lead pastor and go back to Egypt where we can eat all the onions and garlic we want!” OK? So, you want bad breath instead of God’s Promise? Ain’t it amazing what good church folks will give up for bad breath!
It would now seem, if they are going to be a good old American democracy, that God’s Promise would never happen, at least by the story of the Halitosis Ten. But there is another Story being told and written. Caleb, along with Joshua, has a Different Story to write and tell. Allow me, if you will, to share just a little bit about That Different Story. It’s a Story of living in The Promise, not The Halitosis. There is much to be said, but I will share 4 of the Key Qualities of Caleb.
1. He Had A Different Mindset
Caleb isn’t being naive. He saw the well fortified cities. He saw that the land produced NFL Linemen sized people. He saw every obstacle in front of them. But Caleb saw more. He saw God’s Presence through The Promise. He saw the challenges in front of him through the faithfulness of God. He had the mindset of looking at The Problem Solver, not the problem; of looking at the Giant Slayer, not the giant. Caleb was really radical—he trusted God. I am amazed (probably more like disgusted) at those who say they are a Christian while insisting that as a church we have to play it safe. Where’s the faith in that? And where did Jesus ever say that following Him was safe? See your situations as an individual and a church the same way Caleb saw what was in front of Him—God’s got this!
2. He Had A Different Purpose
Caleb knew that his purpose was to be a reflection of God—His heart and His purposes. Caleb was willing to give up his Story to become a part of a much bigger Story, the Story of God’s purposes. Ever since Adam and Eve messed it all up and ever since we perpetuate The Fall with our sinfulness, God has been at work and His work is very clear. He wants to Redeem The Sinner, bring Recovery For The Broken, and to Restore His Image Bearers. All of us have a Life Purpose, good, bad or indifferent, you have a Life Purpose. Your Life Purpose will be based and built upon the information you believe is true. Caleb believed God’s Promise is greater than any obstacle, so he chose as the Purpose of his life, to work where God is working—Redeeming, Recovering and Restoring.
3. He Had A Different Courage
Caleb’s courage came from his Trust in God. Caleb saw God as Trustworthy. He didn’t stutter, blink or hesitate. “Come on, gang! God is Trustworthy! You say you Trust in God? Well, let’s put some action in that trust!” Caleb’s roots grew deep in God. Caleb understood that “roots” are not what holds us down to the ground, but enables to grow up and out. This courage came out of something Caleb did not fully understand, but somehow knew—that God’s Spirit, the Holy Spirit, was inside him. He knew that wherever he went, God was with him—and that was enough.
4. He Had A Different Plan
His plan was to stay close enough to God so that he could see how God would work it out. He didn’t trust himself to figure it out—how it would happen. He knew that God had a plan and all he needed to do was to be available for the ways that God wanted to use him. Translated to 2017, the work of God is a Spiritual Work that requires Spiritual Tools (known as the Gifts of the Spirit), A Spiritual Heart (which is the heart of a servant), and A Spiritual Attitude (known as HE is the vine and we are the branches—branches designed to bear much fruit).
Goodness gracious! Where have all the Calebs gone today? You can find the next Caleb by looking the mirror. He’s longing to get out—because there is a Caleb in you but you need to make the choice between The Promise and The Halitosis. Which do you really want?
And remember to love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him!
How refreshing to see another pastor understand how God is calling us back to our true roots–community with God, fellow disciples, and in the neighborhoods! I encourage you to read all of Keith’s posts about Missional Communities…
Missional communities continue to be an instrument by which we can live out what it means to be a missional church in the 21st Century.- Keith Haney
The new standard for information, Wikipedia, defines “missional communities” this way:
“A Missional community is a group of people, about the size of an extended family, who are united through Christian community around a common service and witness to a particular neighborhood or network of relationships.”
I have to admit that is not a bad definition. One congregation that has a robust mission community philosophy has the following as their definition and vision. This plan comes from Christianity Today.
“What is a “missional community”?
A community of Christ followers, on mission with God in obedience to the Holy Spirit that demonstrates and declares the Gospel of Jesus Christ to a particular people group.
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For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven…A time to be quiet and a time to speak. (Ecclesiastes 3:1 & 7 N.L.T.)
I’ve been in this time of blog silence. For the past 2 months, with a couple of exceptions, I have avoided this blog and even reading a lot of the blogs I follow. To my blogging friends please do not be offended. God has been leading me in what Solomon calls “a season”. It started out as a season for me to focus on God’s vision for the church I serve. But God added another purpose–it was a season for me to focus on ME. Please do not think I am self-serving and narcissistic. Over these many years I have encouraged caregivers to take time to care for themselves. Self-care is not a sin; it is essential. Well, I have attempted to take my own advice. The demands of church, community and family have been especially pressing in this season. So it’s not like I haven’t been doing anything. Yet, it the middle of all the pressing life-issues, I have managed to spend more time ALONE with Papa, and that is always a good thing, and a great use of our limited time.
This time to be quiet has been a learning time. One thing I’ve learned is that I need to be silent and still before God. But here’s the thing: I’m not good at being silent, and even worse at being still. I do admit that I could probably be diagnosed as adult ADHD, oh look! A squirrel! And I keep repeating to myself David’s insight from Psalm 46:10–“Be still, and know that I am God! I will be honored by every nation. I will be honored throughout the world.”
And what I have learned in this season is that when I’m not still, my spirit doesn’t grow and when my spirit doesn’t grow I get distracted from the life that honors God. The struggle continues to be still and quiet but I am becoming more disciplined in it. And in this time to be quiet, God has been affirming and confirming my role at this stage of my life, which is to completely become a Kingdom Pastor and not a hospice pastor. Maybe I need to explain that statement.
A hospice pastor is very much like a hospice chaplain. A hospice chaplain provides comfort to a patient, their family and friends as they near the end of this life. A hospice pastor does the same thing, except it is offering comfort and ministry to a group of people known as the church, a dying church, but a church nonetheless. And after decades of service in the Kingdom, they need to be affirmed for their history and given gentle care as they slowly pass away. And they need someone to help them grieve. This is a hospice pastor.
A Kingdom Pastor is one who is called to be God’s instrument of transformation into a new paradigm which is actually an old paradigm, a couple of thousand years old paradigm: bringing the Body of Christ back to our roots of being involved in the story of The Kingdom of God and not the history of a local congregation. At times I admit I am overwhelmed by the risks involved. There are already those who think it’s time for me to leave. I admit I get a bit uneasy, OK, SCARED, at this journey. But I keep remembering (actually it’s the Holy Spirit that keeps reminding me) that those first disciples of Jesus took great risks. And here’s another thought, from The Spirit of course: the greatest risk of all was taken by Jesus when He died for me and then called me to be this pastor and preacher. With all the uncertainty that still remains in my mind, I am now ready to take the greatest risks ever in my life for the ONE who took the Greatest Risk of all eternity FOR my life.
Face it, change not only can be frightening, it IS frightening. The urge to be like the Hebrew children who were so close to God’s Promise but wanted to go back to Egypt, is the urge we all must fight. But remember Caleb–we do not fight this battle alone, but with the ONE who is Faithful to keep The Promise! And remember, love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure, very sure, that all the glory goes to HIM!
The link below is from a fellow pastor, mentor, leader and friend. While his thoughts are directed towards and fitting for my fellow United Methodist Pastors, the principles Paul lays out will fit a variety of situations. Sometimes we forget that when Jesus walked this creation as one He created, He was one of the most divisive personalities ever seen. And if any of my readers are United Methodist, please take this blog as being hopeful–hopeful as we follow Jesus.
Click on the picture to go to Paul’s blog…
Since the ripe old age of 18, I have been serving local congregations. I started out as filling in as their “preacher” and finally reached the stage of “ordination to Word, Sacrament and Administration.” I am now 61 and one thing I have noticed that is consistent in every place I have served, are those who think that chinwag is a spiritual gift that should be exercised frequently and with great authority. However, those who exercise this alleged “gift” with skill and expertise that mirrors the skill of a diamond cutter are those who feign an albeit false, image of humility.
Perhaps I should give you the definition of this word “chinwag”. One definition of this word is to have a casual conversation. But the word means more that just a casual chit-chat. According to Dictionary.Com as a noun it means “an idle chat; gossiping” and as a verb it means “to chat idly; gossip”. Right now I started thinking about a cultural phenomenon known as “fake news”. Many a blog has been written about fake news as if it is something new. Unfortunately it has been around a long time, even in the church.
The Enemy, OUR enemy as real Followers of Jesus, knows he cannot defeat his “enemy”. He lost when his enemy became human, he lost in the wilderness temptations, he lost on that Cross, and his ultimate defeat came from that cemetery. So he has turned his attention on those who have had their status as Image Bearers restored and their FOB (Forward Operating Bases), set up in what he thinks is his territory. These Forward Operating Bases are also known as local churches.
To weaken the Forward Operating Bases, our enemy gets willing participants to focus their thoughts and energy inwardly. The result is they lose sight of our real enemy and turn our sisters and brothers in arms into an imaginary enemy. And the primary weapon used is chinwag–gossip. Our enemy is deceiving many into believing that it’s best to believe the worst about people. It is not always easy to build strong relationships because often it requires time and energy–time and energy that some are unwilling to expend. So they end up spreading what they hear and assumptions about what they hear.
I know for fact that in one FOB some called the Vision Committee the DIvision Committee. Those words, that term, created far more damage for the future of the FOB than they realize. And that’s the thing, “far more than they realize”. We need to take the time to consider the impact of our words. And we need to consider using better words in ways that are far better at building up rather than tearing down. Consider the words of Paul in Ephesians 4:29 and from the God’s Word Translation, it goes like this:
Don’t say anything that would hurt another person. Instead, speak only what is good so that you can give help wherever it is needed. That way, what you say will help those who hear you.
I’ve said it before and I will say it again. One of the biggest lies taught to kids goes like this: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me.” Words do harm and hurt far more and the injury it causes takes far longer to heal than any broken bone. Engaging is any conversation that is meant to belittle, harm or simply not founded on the truth opens the door for the enemy to do even more harmful work against The Kingdoms FOB.
It is far better to engage in conversations WITH people than to chinwag ABOUT people. It turns one into a petty minded obstructionist and yet another tool and weapon for the enemy. The enemy already has way too many weapons, so do not become another one for him. Let your words be words that build others up. After all, those last words of Jesus from the Cross, continues to build up people that people who chinwag try to destroy. #YourWordsMatter!
Love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him. By the way, HE is never glorified nor honored in your chinwag.