Telling stories. No, not telling “untruths”. Growing up as a preacher’s kid, we were allowed to say the word “Liar!” It was appropriate, and thus avoiding “the look” from Dad, to say, “You’re telling a story!” That’s not what I’m writing about this morning.
I’m talking about telling a story, revealing a storyline, you know, revealing things about your own life. I’ve been fascinated with body art. I said “Body Art”, not body sculpting. I have too much flab and too many scars to enter that world. Most call them tattoos. For some time now, I’ve engaged in dialogue with people who have body art.
While some of those with body art have told me they just like it, I have found many more who are telling a story in their body art. They are stories of hope, joy, sadness and even failure. But it’s their story and the way they tell their story. Well, a little over a week ago, I went to see a local Body Art specialist. Oh, come on, don’t you think I know those passages in Leviticus?
You Leviticus folks will not like this next picture, and feel free to judge me all you want. It will give those other folks you judge a break from your indignation. I wanted something that would tell a story from my life. And it was really easy to decide how I wanted to begin my story through Body Art.
The Cross is at the core of my story. And those two blood drops? One drop was for me, the other blood drop was for you. Frankly, I choose this act as a way to remind me of…well ME! I’m worthless and nothing without the Cross of Jesus. Now I carry with me the reminder that how I act, what I say and what I do needs to be aligned with The Cross.
Jewelry and wristbands can be taken off so that I’m not reminded of my propensity to sin. But this? It’s always there to remind me!
For my part, I am going to boast about nothing but the Cross of our Master, Jesus Christ. Because of that Cross, I have been crucified in relation to the world, set free from the stifling atmosphere of pleasing others and fitting into the little patterns that they dictate. Can’t you see the central issue in all this? It is not what you and I do—submit to circumcision, reject circumcision. It is what God is doing, and he is creating something totally new, a free life! All who walk by this standard are the true Israel of God—his chosen people. Peace and mercy on them! Quite frankly, I don’t want to be bothered anymore by these disputes. I have far more important things to do—the serious living of this faith. I bear in my body scars from my service to Jesus.
Galatians 6:14-17 (The Message)
There are many ways to tell my story of God’s Grace. I want to use all the means I can to tell that Story. And my story isn’t finished. If you did not pick up on that last sentence, I am going to have some more added. I’ll share that with you as it happens.
I’m out telling my story–sometimes I do it with excellence and sometimes….well sometimes not so well. YOU have a story to tell. Your life has a story and you are telling it–with your words, values, attitudes and actions. What story are you telling? Me? I’m telling the story of The Cross–my place in THAT Story and best of all, my future because I’ve chosen to enter into the Storyline of God’s Amazing Grace!
Love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him!
We are looking at the process of discovering God’s
vision for you and this church, to discover God’s purpose for this place. To do this, I want us to look at a couple of
examples we need to learn from: Jonah
and Esther. Today, let’s look at Jonah1:1-5
1 The Lord gave this
message to Jonah son of Amittai: 2 “Get up and go to the great
city of Nineveh. Announce my judgment
against it because I have seen how wicked its people are.”
3 But Jonah got up and went in the opposite direction to get away from
the Lord. He went down to the port
of Joppa, where he found a ship leaving for Tarshish. He bought a ticket and went on board, hoping
to escape from the Lord by sailing to Tarshish.
the Lord hurled a powerful wind over the sea, causing a violent storm
that threatened to break the ship apart. 5 Fearing for
their lives, the desperate sailors shouted to their gods for help and threw the
cargo overboard to lighten the ship. But
all this time Jonah was sound asleep down in the hold.
When God gives us a Recalculating
Moment, He does so to transform us into what can only be described
as Becoming Peculiar People. In other words—to stand out from everything
else. Always to be different from the
world. But sometimes God’s Recalculating Moment is for us to be
different from the Religious Culture.
Don’t you want to be a peculiar people? The phrase is Peter’s, from the King James
Version of 1 Peter 2:9: “But
ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a Peculiar People; that ye should shew
forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvelous
In Greek, the phrase A
Peculiar People means “a purchased possession”—something that
uniquely belongs to God, acquired at great cost. We are to be Holy Oddities—Sacred Misfits. You can’t make heads or
tails of us unless you bring God into the equation. But we’re going to look at one way to not be peculiar.
It’s the story of Jonah. When I was a child in Sunday School, I heard
the story of Jonah from the perspective that here is a hero of the faith. At first, he didn’t want to go—in fact he
would rather die than go. But God showed
grace in the form of this big fish.
Jonah changed his mind and would go. The Hero, right? Wrong.
Jonah refused God’s Recalculating
Moment at first. Eventually
he followed God’s Recalculating Moment,
but he did so without The Heart Of
God. Jonah shows us that it’s
not enough to simply change direction.
Here’s the Lessons he teaches:
1. Jonah Was A Prophet Who
Wanted Nothing To Do With God.
Jonah—his name means dove. Ironic, isn’t it? Jonah’s name doesn’t fit his heart nor his
attitude. Biblically, the dove was a sign
of hope and peace. In the Old Testament,
Doves represented hope, renewal, grace, beauty, innocence, swiftness,
sacrifice, peace and good news. In the
New Testament, the dove is one of the principal symbols of the Holy Spirit—a sign
from Heaven. Jesus instructed his
followers to be “harmless as doves.”
Hope. Renewal. Grace. Beauty.
Innocence. Spirit. Swiftness. Sacrifice. Good News. Peace.
Jonah is none of this. Jonah’s no dove! He’s a hawk, a vulture. Jonah’s a harbinger of judgment, a conjurer of
despair, and a herald of bad news. He’s
a scrappy, noisy, crow! And that’s the point. Jonah is a prophet that wants nothing to do
with God. He’s an evangelist who wants
nothing to do with the lost—except to see them punished and banished. Jonah Is A Portrait Of Those Who Were A People
Of God But Who Have Lost The Heart Of God.
He’s a picture of a person who is Christian in name
only—not in character, conduct, or conviction. He is an example of what happens to many
Christians and many churches—we get turned in on ourselves, self-satisfied,
self-indulgent, and happy to let the world go to hell. Jonah avoids sinners. When that’s no longer possible, he crusades
against them, picketing their towns.
He first tries to ignore their existence, then he
protests against them, and then he seeks to annihilate them altogether. If I had to identify the primary question that
drives the Book of Jonah, it’s this: Will Jonah Ever Learn To Be A Dove, Not Just In
Name But Also In Heart? And
that’s the question the church must continually wrestle with: Will We Ever Learn To Be Christian, Not Just In
Name But Also In Heart? This is Lesson 1 from Jonah.
2. Jonah Rejects God’s Word.
The Book of Jonah begins with a miracle—God speaks to
Jonah. But Jonah resents and resists the
word of the Lord, finding it to be a mighty inconvenience. It doesn’t fit into his plan. It doesn’t meet his expectations. It doesn’t agree with his beliefs. But the word comes anyway.
The miracle is that the word of the Lord still breaks
in on those who have long given up listening for it or attending to it; it still
comes to those who have not hungered and thirsted for it for years—if ever!
The word that comes to Jonah is firm and fixed: Go. Jonah is to proclaim the Word of
the Lord to Nineveh. Nineveh was the
capital of the blood thirsty Assyrians.
They are the enemy. Jonah is
called to go to the enemy. But the
crucial thing is how God sees this enemy.
First of all, He
sees they are wicked. In fact, their wickedness has come up before
God and reached a tipping point in heaven. God’s had enough; He’s going to act.
But notice the second thing God sees in Nineveh—she is a great city. Her greatness is not just in sheer physical
size. The Hebrew word used in the text means
more than magnitude. It speaks of
importance and weightiness. Nineveh’s greatness is her potential—if
only she turned from her wickedness.
Jonah only sees Nineveh’s wickedness and refuses to
see her potential for greatness, so he runs away. He is called to something too hard, so he
flees. This is where the story gets
interesting. Jonah doesn’t just flee the
call of God or sidestep his assignment; he tries to escape God’s presence. Verse 3: Jonah…went in the opposite direction to get away from the Lord.
This Jonah heart is in each of us. We all face a constant temptation to demand
God’s blessing but avoid obedience and service. Entire church communities can have a desire to
seek God’s blessing, but not His Face or His Kingdom. Entire churches are
sometimes preoccupied only with What’s In It For Me.
Let’s finish the story, and see why Jonah isn’t a hero.
Jonah flees, but he doesn’t get every far. He books passage on a ship bound for
Tarshish—a city at the edge of the known world. Here’s something I learned just this week
about the name Tarshish. According to the New Unger’s Bible
Dictionary, Tarshish is a Phoenician word from the
Akkadian meaning Smelting Plant Or
Refinery. In biblical
times, metals were obtained from the ore by fire. He’s trying his best to get as far away as he
But Jonah jumps out of the pan and into the fire. God Pursues Jonah Through A Storm, Still
Wanting Jonah’s Heart The sailors on the boat force Jonah to confess his
identity, and they discover that he’s the source of the trouble.
At Jonah’s request, they throw him into the sea. Jonah is suicidal. God sends a large fish to swallow Jonah whole.
Three days later, the large fish spews
him up on the shore. Jonah, duly
chastised, heads to Nineveh and does his duty.
He only does it because the pain of God’s chastisement is greater that
his desire to run away.
He preaches fire and brimstone and then goes and camps
on the outskirts of Nineveh, waiting for God’s fireworks to fall on the city
and its people. But something strange
takes place. The king of Nineveh hears
Jonah’s message, and he’s broken in his heart. He puts on sackcloth and ashes and calls on
the city to fast, pray, repent, and trust God’s mercy. The entire city turns to God, and God shows
mercy. And Jonah couldn’t be more
Jonah is a representative of a class of people we meet
in the pages of Scripture, in the drama of life, and in the pews of our
churches. He is a Refuser Of Festivities.
He misses the grace of God and lets
bitterness take root. Like the older
brother in the parable of the Prodigal Son, he won’t join the party; he won’t
live in grace.
God is involved in an extravagant, surprising,
mercy-drenched business—seeking and saving those who are lost, throwing feasts
once they’re found—but Jonah and his ilk sit on the sidelines and sulk about
how hard God is on them and how soft he is on everyone else. They stew about things taken away from them,
and things they never wanted others to have that God has given to them without
In C. S. Lewis’ story, The Silver Chair,
a selfish little girl named Jill asks the great lion Aslan—the story’s Christ
figure—if he eats girls. Aslan responds,
“I have swallowed boys and girls, men and women, kings and kingdoms.” And here is an even more interesting
question: Has He swallowed you?
How are you handling God’s Recalculating Moments in your life? With joy?
Or with the resentment of Jonah?
Well, things are really shaking and moving in California; and not in a good way. My heart goes out to all those impacted by this disaster. I’ve read a lot about “experts” saying this may well be the prelude to “The Big One.” Excuse me, now I’ve only experienced a few minor tremors (yes, in Alabama we do have earthquakes, small ones, but it was still an earthquake), but what could be bigger than a 7.1? Gee whiz, geologists, thanks for adding to their fear.
But those comments are not the cause of me writing this morning. It was a question posed by someone in a Facebook group of which I am a member. This person asked the group, “Do you think this earthquake is the result of God’s judgement against the people of California?” This picture must have been the expression on my face when I read it.
Being a Disaster Response Coordinator for my local Tribe, this and similar statements irk me on the scale of a 10.7. When a person goes through a natural disaster, they don’t need The Disaster of Poor Theology. Statements like:
“God needed them more than we did.”
“It was just things.”
“We have to accept it as God’s will even if we don’t understand or like it.”
“You’re young, you can always find someone else.”
“God just wanted your attention.”
“If y’all don’t repent, something worse is going to happen.”
I could go on, but I won’t….
Even as I’m writing, I remember something very dumb I said back in the early 80’s when I was in seminary. The Aids crisis was growing and I asked a fellow pastor, whom I looked up to because he was conservative like me, “Don’t you think this Aids epidemic is God’s punishment?” Even now, I’m hanging my head in shame for even allowing that thought to remain in my head. His response caught me off guard. “NO! All our punishments were put on Jesus while He was on the cross!” He then gently addressed my Poor Theology; and I’ve never forgotten it. Come to think of it, his facial expression was just like that picture above.
To say this latest earthquake is God punishing California, qualifies you for membership in that Wacko Westboro Baptist Cult. Look, maybe you or someone you know is going through a difficult time–a disaster if you will. Maybe you are thinking, “God is punishing me and I deserve it.” Well, you are half right.
We all deserve to be punished for our sins, but Jesus took that well-deserved punishment upon Himself as He hung on that cross. The prophet Isaiah foretold this truth:
Yet it was our weaknesses he carried; it was our sorrows that weighed him down. And we thought his troubles were a punishment from God, a punishment for his own sins! But he was pierced for our rebellion, crushed for our sins. He was beaten so we could be whole. He was whipped so we could be healed.
Isaiah 53:4-5 (NLT)
The next time you see someone going through a disaster–be it a natural disaster, man-made disaster, a spiritual disaster that resulted from poor choices in their life–don’t look at them and think, “Well, they got what they deserved.” And don’t you dare say it! Instead, be broken and cry for them. Then get up and do something to help rebuild their lives.
Yes, God disciplines–He disciplines those whom He loves and who loves Him. But disasters are not acts of discipline. They are reflections of our current reality–that we and our natural world are infected, affected and broken by sin. Not just Adam and Eve’s sin, but our sin as well. If you think God is punishing California, get your emergency kits out because He is about to punish you, too.
Love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to HIM!
that my words could be recorded. Oh,
that they could be inscribed on a monument, 24 carved with an
iron chisel and filled with lead, engraved forever in the rock.
25 “But as for me, I know that my Redeemer lives, and He will stand upon
the earth at last. 26 And
after my body has decayed,
yet in my body I will see God! 27 I will see him for myself.
Yes, I will see him with my own eyes. I am overwhelmed at the thought!
As we conclude our D-Day
Series, I hope that there have been some hearts that have been
tugged. Maybe a few cheeks are a little
wet. Many of you have expressed
appreciate for tackling this series because…well…because you have been invaded
by 1 or more these D-Days.
I promised you that what I would share, would come out
of my own experiences. And this has been
true, up until today. This is a D-Day Invasion I Haven’t Had—But I Know That One Day I Will.
Today we aren’t talking so much about the difficulty
of death but of the hope we can have here in this life, as we know Christ—the
hope that invades our lives. Even when
loved ones die after a long life, or those who have had their lives cut way to
short, there is this thing called Peace
that only comes through our Heavenly Father.
Even though there may be sadness of a recent death of
someone in your life, my hope is that you will leave with a song of praise in
your heart because you know where real hope and peace come from. Listen to these names, and let me ask you a
question. All of the names have
something in common. Try to figure it
Apostle Paul: Greatest missionary to have ever lived! Adolph
Hitler: Ruthless dictator and slaughterer of millions. Mother
Teresa: Sweet nun and caretaker of the world’s poor. General
George Patton: Great WW2 Leader.
Mary, The Mother Of Jesus:
Enough said. Moses: Great leader of Israel; Elvis Presley: King of Rock and
Earnhardt: The Intimidator of racing. Princess
Diana: Royalty and compassion filled her life and her calling. Ted
Williams: One the greatest baseball players ever. Todd
Beamer: Average guy on Flight 93.
Do you have it in your mind? What do all of these famous & infamous
people have in common? They have all
experienced the D-Day invasion of Death!
They have experienced it and some have mourned their death. They died because of natural causes,
accidents, war, disease, tragedy—but all died.
Death—it’s the great equalizer.
It’s not a respecter of persons. It doesn’t matter how wealthy or poor you
are, educated or uneducated, death is something that all of us will have to
face one day.
No matter how common death is, when you lose a loved
one, especially a child, I am not sure that there is any way to ever fully prepare
for that. I am not going to attempt to
do that today. I think when death comes
to those who had a lot of life in front of them; it’s just a hard and difficult
thing. Death of a loved one can’t be
shrugged off. But Death is not the enemy
of the survivor’s soul.
We can get through this D-Day invasion of death. More importantly today, as we talk about the
death of someone close and our own destiny with death, we can be prepared. It doesn’t matter what age a person is, one
day you will experience the D-Day invasion of death and you can prepare and
understand how to survive in this thing called death.
I want to talk about how we can survive but also, more
importantly for each individual that you would understand that one day you are
going to die. Are you prepared for
death? It may be that some of you here
today, you’re sitting right here and you have no assurance of a future hope
after this life is over.
If some were to be honest with themselves, they would say,
“I do not understand eternity. I do not understand where I will spend
eternity when I die.”
I think all of us in our hearts understand that there
is an eternity. For many of us here, if
your life was really dealt a death blow of a loved one, it would really cripple
us. We wouldn’t know where our hope would
How can you and I survive the agony of losing a loved
one? How can we know we will survive our
own death? It Almost Sounds Like An Oxymoron—Surviving Death. But after death, there is eternity to be
I want you to turn to John 14, read it, listen to
it. I’m going to build on what Job had
to say about death.
1. Believe In God’s Way!
“Don’t let your hearts be troubled…”
John 14:1a (NLT)
That word, Troubled—it means “to agitate”. It means to take away our calm and
peace. Think about an agitator in a
washing machine. It stirs everything
up—sometimes twisting and tying clothes in a knot. That’s what the thought of death does to us
when we are confronted with our mortality—without that relationship with God.
The best way to deal with death of a loved or to
understand our own mortality is to trust in God—to believe in God’s way. Somewhere in your life you will have to
recognize that God is the Almighty Creator and He is ultimately in control of
our lives and the whole world. None of you
are here on this day for this message by accident.
He Also Has An Ultimate Purpose For Our Lives. Do you know
what that purpose is? Boil it all
down—you are the loving creation of our great God. To believe in God’s way is to understand that
He loves you unconditionally and He wants to have a relationship with you. This one little simple truth brings hope
because it means we have a loving God who desires a relationship even with
us! When things are going so well, we
see this world and think, “This is it!
Nothing could get better.”
But God says, “Believe
In My Way. This Is Only A Glimpse Of
Paradise. Are You Enjoying This
Life? I Have Set Aside, For Those Who
Believe In Me As Their God, A Place Called Paradise!” Paradise is the place promised the thief on
the cross, and it means “garden”—it’s the same word to describe the place where
Adam & Eve were before the fall—that beautiful place of relationship with
Father, Son and Spirit.
God’s way for you and for me is to know true peace and
hope through a personal relationship with God.
To be in a loving relationship with him made possible by the death of
his son, Jesus Christ! That day, the
Creator died for His creation. Second,
2. Trust Your Life To Jesus!
“Trust in God, and trust also in Me. 2 There is more than enough room in My Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you?”
God loves us so much that He came to earth as
Emmanuel, God with us. God came and
walked among us so that He could die for us.
Isn’t that amazing? Our creator
God came to die for us. Listen to this—In John 14:6 when Jesus
says about himself:
“I Am The Way, The Truth, And
The Life. No One Can Come To The Father Except Through Me.”
To be able to reach the Father, we have to acknowledge
our sin, acknowledge our inability to get rid of it and stop being controlled
by sin. The ONLY way this happens is by
giving our life to Jesus—trusting our life to Jesus. We can give up on God—but God never gives up
When We Say YES To Jesus, God Gives
Us Eternal Life, Not Because We’re Good, But Because GOD IS GOOD! We can work
through our grief when we lose someone close, because if they said YES to
Jesus, we will see them again! And if
they haven’t? We have Jesus living
inside us through the Spirit to help us through our grief.
3. Rest In God’s Presence In You, The Holy Spirit!
“But when the Father sends the Advocate as My representative—that is, the Holy Spirit—He will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told you.”
John 14:26 (NLT)
All through the New Testament, the Bible uses
different words for the Holy Spirit.
Sometimes He is called The
Counselor Who Guides Us With The Wisdom Of Eternity. He’s the person who helps us understand. He is also the Great Comforter that Gives Peace And Hope. He holds us close to His heart to protect us
from the pain and despair from this broken world we live in.
Let me ask you another question. It has to be a question that you take to
heart. When Death Comes To Invade Your Life, Will You Know Peace Or Will
You Know Mayhem? Where does
your hope come from? Does it come from
your bank account, your job, your family, your country? Those things will all be gone when you’re
gone. What about eternal hope? What about eternal peace? Where does it come from?
Throughout this series, I have shared with you how to
survive some D-Day invasions — disillusionment, defeat, divorce and
depression. All of what we said this
whole series hinges on Your Personal Relationship With God.
Let me be very clear, for anyone who has never given their
life to God, why not right now, simply Put Your Hand In His Hands.
That’s all, but it makes a world of difference in your
life now, and an eternity of difference in your life after death.
Are you struggling with fresh grief? Are you at war with old grief, grief that
just won’t go away? Jesus understands
this and has something for you. It is
what Jesus said and did for the Disciples after The Resurrection. In John
20:21-22 Jesus says: “Again he said, ‘Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, so I am sending
you.’ Then he breathed on them and said,
‘Receive the Holy Spirit’.”
Death, Make Sure You Are In A Relationship with God—not with what you know
Until You Die To Start Living.
we know how Life Conquers Death, and we know how To Start Living Now at the
sacramental table we call Holy Communion.
Here we see and taste that His Death defeats Death in Us Now—and when
that moment comes—His Resurrection defeats our death.
It made me think about the Great Debate going on in my Tribe, the United Methodist Church. While some have chosen to make it a debate about human sexuality, I see that it is something much more that this single issue. The real issue is Grace. There are some within our Orthodox Camp who show little grace to those who are struggling with their identity, but I’ll leave their narrow view of grace to another post.
I’m talking about the artificial grace from those with a progressive persuasion. They claim that because of grace, sin needs to be redefined. At the core is that the suffering of Jesus was designed to free a person from that nasty thing called sin. Grace gives us the authority to redefine everything. Not so fast, Buckeroo.
The grace that condones and encourages anyone to live outside God’s Intended Design, is not Real Grace, rather a prosthetic grace. I have nothing but deep respect admiration for our Wounded Warriors and others who have lost a limb and then proceed to live their life to the fullest through the use of that prosthetic limb. If you are one of these, know that you inspire me to do better, BE better.
But to insist that there is a form of grace that allows us to live by our desires, our feelings, our understandings–well, it’s not really grace. What I see is a progressive grace that denies people the opportunity to experience God’s Power of Transformation. And thus, their theology ceases to be progressive…it becomes regressive. Perhaps this explains the aggressive behavior of many within the progressive camp.
Listening to the stories of those who have those prosthetic limbs, I hear the difficulties and pain involved in learning to use these marvelous devices. Ask anyone who is required to use a prosthetic limb, “Which would you rather have, the real limb or prosthetic limb?”, and I believe that would answer, “The real one, of course.”
This false grace being promoted is filled with both difficulties and pain. False grace leaves no room for the true purpose of Grace–which is to engage us in a lifelong process of transformation. It is telling people you are a prisoner to your desires and feelings. And to the LBGTQI+ community I say, “God loves you, period. But His GRACE is made to liberate you from your feelings and desires about who you want to have sex with. You are not identified by your sexual desires. You are identified by the person God wants to make you. Because God is good, He will transform you into someone beautiful and wonderful.”
Grace without a lifetime of transformation??? It’s not real. It’s not grace. It’s a prosthetic to replace the real.
And remember to love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him!
why give light to those in misery, and life to those who are bitter? 21 They long for death, and
it won’t come. They search for death
more eagerly than for hidden treasure.
filled with joy when they finally die, and rejoice when they find the grave. 23 Why is life given to those
with no future, those God has surrounded with difficulties?
cannot eat for sighing; my groans pour out like water. 25 What I always feared has
happened to me. What I dreaded has come
true. 26 I have no
peace, no quietness. I have no rest;
only trouble comes.”
Let me set up today’s message with an image from the
novel by Nathaniel Hawthorne, “The Scarlet Letter” set in Boston in the Puritan
era. It’s the story of a woman who
conceived after committing adultery.
Because of her act she was forced to wear the Scarlet letter “A” stitched on her clothes. It was the religious community’s attempt to
fill her with shame.
There’s another Scarlet letter that many of us have worn—The Scarlet Letter D! When we launched this series called Surviving Your D-Day Invasions, we said that each of the attacks we would discuss come as a sneak invasion from a hostile enemy. When you look at today’s topic of Divorce, we know that to be true. In this series, we are looking at the Old Testament story of a man named Job. Job did not experience divorce, but these words he wrote fit those of us who have. I also said that we would be walking through my own personal story. Here is the one thing I ask you to remember:
Divorce Is A Sin, But It Never Disqualifies You From Serving God.
Today we’ll be talking about the darkest time in my
life. This is the most difficult message
I have ever had to prepare or deliver. I
realize this message will not apply to all of you. But maybe you know someone with someone who
has faced or is facing The
The first time I did this series was 2003. When God first started working on me about
this series and today’s topic, you have no idea how I resisted. At the time Vicky and I had been separated, a
fact known by only a very few people.
Before that, we have been sleeping in separate rooms, living separate
lives. God has an amazing sense of
timing. The first time I did this
message was 1 week after I announced to the congregation I served, that we
filed for Divorce.
And even now, I still have difficulty sharing these
thoughts with you. Today is deeply
personal, a reflection of what I learned as I dealt with the fact of Divorce in my life. I never said, “Let’s try this thing called
marriage, and 29 years later, if it doesn’t work out, we’ll get a Divorce.” But sometimes, in spite of our best
intentions, the path of our lives takes an unexpected turn.
Of all the “D’s”
of the D-Day Invasions, Divorce can be overwhelmingly painful. It sneaks up on two people who began a union
deeply in love. They had dreams and
aspirations of what their marriage could be and should be. For the most part, they thought their
marriage would last forever. That is
until one day, when the D-Day Invasion
of Divorce lands right in
the middle of their home.
Maybe some of you here have personally experienced the
D-Day Invasion of Divorce. Some of you may have seen the results of that
invasion in your parent’s Divorce. All of us have probably had friends, close
friends, whose marriage became 1 of the unfortunate statistics of our
Many people are dealing with the pain, turmoil and
rejection that come with Divorce. Believers, non-believers, seekers—the D-Day Invasion Of Divorce cuts across
all lines. And because of deep
misunderstanding, the church only adds to the pain.
Once we are faced with the Invasion of Divorce, how can we survive? How can we discard this Scarlet D? Many people feel hopeless, confused and
rejected. I looked at my failed marriage
and I felt like a total failure. God’s plan for marriage is for a
Somewhere down the line, you’re going to have to
attach some responsibility. In all Divorce cases, one or both people
were responsible. Someone screwed up;
someone made a mistake. It may not be
you but it was someone. This once
perfect thing now has division. You
cannot speak of Divorce in generalities;
each case must be examined in its own situation.
That’s what we need to do here. Some of the most happily married people I
know are people who have learned from their past mistakes. However, we know the statistics, don’t
of people who Divorce once will Divorce again. Most
second marriages fail also. 73% of third marriages end in Divorce.
Once we understand who is responsible, we can begin to
work toward forgiveness. We understand
that true healing requires forgiveness for wrongs done. Forgiveness must be accepted and must be
given. Some people say, “That’s
crazy! There is no way I’ll forgive that
person—it’s too difficult.” You are
It’s very, very hard.
You may be the only one that wants to work on forgiveness. When we have been hurt and wronged we will
never be healed until we forgive.
You don’t have to walk up to that ex-spouse and announce your
forgiveness. But you have to do it in
your heart. Forgiveness is saying, “I Refuse To Hold On To The Pain. I Refuse To Live In The Past. I Release Them From Holding Me Captive To Any
Grudge Or Pain.”
You must also learn to forgive yourself. As you work through the responsibility part
of Divorce, you may find
that some of the blame lies with you. I
know there were times when I was uncaring.
There were especially times when I was too busy.
Kids of Divorce
go through confusion and pain when their parents got divorced. They wondered if it was their fault. There is no sense of closure to it. It’s true for even adult kids. Kids of all ages need to stay connected with
both parents. It’s the best thing for the
Your Kids See You Living Out Forgiveness. Teach them, by your
example, about owning up to your mistakes and about receiving and giving the
grace of God. Let them see you working to live at peace
with your ex-spouse. Here is a powerful opportunity to bring something
good out of something horrible.
If you, or a family member, or close friend experiences
the D-Day of Divorce, and
there are children involved, even grown children, it’s important for them to
see the spirit of grace, the spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation at
Take Sides, Be A Model Of God’s Grace. Finally, in order to move beyond the pain,
and experience healing and wholeness:
4. Align Your Different Life
With God’s Principles
In my nearly 44 years of working in ministry, I’ve
never met a person who didn’t want their second marriage to work. There is only one way to do it, friends.
Do you ever feel like you have The Scarlet D pinned to your shirt? That you could never be normal again in God’s
eyes because of this thing called Divorce? Maybe there’s another Scarlet Letter pinned
to your shirt. Maybe yours is the Scarlet A—Addict,
Adultery Abuser, Abused. Maybe you know
someone with the Scarlet
L—Loser. Maybe yours is the Scarlet S—Sinner! I want to leave you with this last verse and
encourage you to align your new life with God’s principles.
2 Corinthians 5:16-17 says: In Christ We Are New Creations; The Old
Is Gone, And New Has Come!
Grace is all about a fresh
start. Do you need a fresh start? God has one for every person who is wearing any
Scarlet Letter. He will
take that letter off of you and you will never have to wear again.
.If You Are Living With Shame Put On You By Family, Church, Or Even Yourself Because Of Divorce, Bring That Shame To Jesus Right Now. The shame of anyone who wears The Scarlet D was carried by Jesus so that you do not have to carry it anymore. No sin that anyone commits ever disqualifies them from both a relationship with God and the opportunity to be called by Him to serve Him.
If You Have Been Through Divorce Or Not, Read The Scriptures About Divorce WITHOUT Whatever You Have Been Taught About It.Take 2 steps in your reading. First, ask the Holy Spirit to be your guide and teacher. Second, read those passages within the big picture of what God is seeking to do with ALL who have sinned. Our God is focusing on both Redemption, and Restoration, making people useful for His Kingdom. God chose Saul the murderer to become Paul the Apostle to the Gentiles. If God can use a murderer, why can’t He use someone divorced in any role He wants?
I remember playground games. Whether it was softball, kick-ball, football
or dodge ball, we would divide into teams.
Sometimes the teacher would select captains, sometimes 2 would just
volunteer. But one thing I remember most,
is that in the process of selecting teams, no one wanted to be the last person
picked. It meant people didn’t see much
in you, that you lacked the skill necessary to be a vital part of the
team. Being picked last was often
humiliating. As we celebrate Communion,
I want you to know that in God’s eyes you are never the last person picked for
God’s team! Let’s look at today’s
passage from Ephesians 1:3-14 found in The
3-6 How blessed is God! And what a blessing He is! He’s the Father of our Master, Jesus Christ,
and takes us to the high places of blessing in Him. Long before He laid down earth’s foundations,
He had us in mind, had settled on us as the focus of His love, to be made whole
and holy by His love. Long, long ago He
decided to adopt us into his family through Jesus Christ. (What pleasure He
took in planning this!) He wanted us to
enter into the celebration of His lavish gift-giving by the hand of His beloved
7-10 Because of the sacrifice of the Messiah, His
blood poured out on the altar of the Cross, we’re a free people—free of
penalties and punishments chalked up by all our misdeeds. And not just barely free, either. Abundantly free!
He thought of everything, provided for everything we could
possibly need, letting us in on the plans He took such delight in making. He set it all out before us in Christ, a
long-range plan in which everything would be brought together and summed up in Him,
everything in deepest heaven, everything on planet earth.
11-12 It’s in Christ that
we find out who we are and what we are living for. Long before we first heard of Christ and got
our hopes up, He had his eye on us, had designs on us for glorious living, part
of the overall purpose He is working out in everything and everyone.
13-14 It’s in Christ that you, once you heard
the truth and believed it (this Message of your salvation), found yourselves
home free—signed, sealed, and delivered by the Holy Spirit. This signet from God is the first installment
on what’s coming, a reminder that we’ll get everything God has planned for us,
a praising and glorious life.
is the most important day in your life.
Not yesterday, not tomorrow, not next week or next year. This leads me to the one thing you need to
remember from today’s message: God speaks of his relationship with you in
permanent, irrevocable terms of adoption, ransom and guarantee. God chooses you, and that will never change.
If you’ve ever felt unsure about your usefulness in God’s plans or
if you are acceptable to God, then I want you to pay close attention for the next
few minutes, because these few verses tell you three important things about You
in God’s eyes. Embrace these 3 truths into your life, you will
experience a greater sense of self-worth and more spiritual confidence than you
have ever known.
1. You’ve Been On
God’s Mind From The Beginning.
back to my image of standing on the playground.
At first, you were just part of a crowd, but now selections have been
made and now you are standing alone, and the captain who has the last pick,
says “Oh well, I guess I’ll have to take them.”
I think all of us can relate to this feeling; we all know what it is
like to be the last chosen—the least talented in at least some area—academically,
athletically, musically, and so on. But
there is an area where you never need feel that way: Your Relationship With God.
Probably all of us have wondered, at one time or another, “If they
had it to do all over again, would they choose me? Would they hire me? Would she marry me?” Maybe some of you have even thought, “If Jesus
had to do it over, would He die for me again?”
Some of you may believe that you have been such a disappointment to God
that you would have been better off not to have been born. The message from God is the exact
God knew that you would be
where you are today in all areas of your life.
He knew you would be here at this moment and for some, it may have been
a rough ride. There may have been
mistakes and disappointments along the way and you may have wanted to give up
many times. Even though your past may be
littered with failures, it doesn’t change the fact that God Loves You, He Chooses You,
And He Believes In You. You have
been, are now and will always be on His mind and in His heart. This is RANSOM!
2. You Belong To
God, And That Will Never Change.
This passage defines your
relationship with God in permanent terms.
It says, first of all, that we have been adopted. The citizens of Ephesus understood the
significance of adoption,
because it was common in their society. Adoption wasn’t just a case of parents
choosing to provide a home for a parentless child.
Paul said, “You’ve been Adopted
into the family of God. Get comfortable because
He’s not going to give up on you.”
3. Everything You
Need, You Can Have.
Jesus didn’t die on the cross
just to abandon you now. God is
generous. He doesn’t withhold His kindness,
His love, His mercy, His forgiveness, His compassion, or His blessings from you. He showers you with kindness. He will lavish His generosity on you, If
You Are Willing To Receive It.
not just about your physical needs; he is referring to your spiritual and
emotional needs as well. God will give
you All The Joy You Need—All The Love You
Need, All The Faith You Need, All The Mercy You Need, And
truth is, He Wants To Shower His Kindness
On You. Everything you need, He
wants to provide.
See your relationship with God
in a new way—in a non-adversarial way.
God isn’t mad at you. He isn’t
sorry that He chose you. And if He had
to do it over, He Would Die For You Again. Why? Before
you were born, you were on His mind
and IN His heart. He chooses You
to be His very own. You belong with Him,
and that will never change. And He will
be with you every step of the way, blessing you with what you need each and
How do I know
this? Even more important, how can YOU
know this? You and I can know this
without a doubt because the
Holy Spirit is given as our guarantee.“Guarantee” Is A Term That Means The Assurance That
Another’s Obligation Will Be Fulfilled.
It comes from a Hebrew word that means “a pledge”—God has made
a pledge to fully restore you back to His Intended Design—To be the you He
created you to be. Until that work is
finished He gives us the Holy Spirit, as His Personal Pledge.
The presence of the Holy Spirit is the assurance that God’s
commitment to you will not stop until the final result—We become exactly like
Design—The Perfect In Every Detail Reflection Of God. We come to the table, the ONLY Table where it
all starts, where we are called to live, and one day where it will be completed—the
Table of Grace…
week it’s rather simple: Find where God
is at work and join with Him. After all,
He has chosen you to work with Him! Or, find a place where you
know God wants to work, and get started.
After all, He wants you to work with Him!
evening, when the Sabbath ended, Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, and
Salome went out and purchased burial spices so they could anoint Jesus’
body. 2 Very early on Sunday
morning, just at sunrise, they went to the tomb. 3 On the way they were asking each other, “Who will roll away
the stone for us from the entrance to the tomb?” 4 But as they arrived, they looked up and saw that the stone,
which was very large, had already been rolled aside.
5 When they entered the tomb, they saw a young man clothed in a white robe sitting on the right side. The women were shocked, 6 but the angel said, “Don’t be alarmed. You are looking for Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He isn’t here! He is risen from the dead! Look, this is where they laid his body. 7 Now go and tell his disciples, including Peter, that Jesus is going ahead of you to Galilee. You will see him there, just as he told you before he died.”
It’s devastating when people break their word, isn’t it. It does much harm.
It Crushes The Spirit,
It Drains The Hope,
And It Steals The Joy Of Living Right Out Of Us.
When Jesus came on the scene preaching the Good News
of God’s Kingdom, people found hope.
Many believed in what Jesus was saying.
It seemed to ring so true in their life.
It was almost too good to be true, but they knew, deep down inside—man,
this is the real deal. Many believers
abandoned their old lifestyles, lucrative careers all to follow Jesus. And they did it without regret or
But then it happened.
Jesus was arrested. Justice was
thrown out the window. He was delivered
into the hands of Roman authority—and when that wasn’t enough—the religious
leaders incited the crowd to cry out for Jesus’ crucifixion.
The women saw him after the Roman soldiers had beaten
Him; bleeding stripes on his back, with chunks of flesh missing or just hanging
there. They saw him led to Golgotha, and
they watched the spikes being driven into His hands and feet. They watched as he hung in agony, and
As bad as it was to watch the death of Jesus, it was
even worse for them—For Their Hope And Peace And Joy Died Also. Maybe some of them felt betrayed by
Jesus. They thought he hadn’t kept his
word to them. We all need people who
will keep their word.
you experience a person who keeps promises, it’s a life-changing
experience. Some of the great historical
moments have been moments where people kept their words. In May of 1942, when the United States
evacuated Corregidor, a submarine came to take General MacArthur and his staff
to Australia. Before MacArthur got on
that submarine, he made a very famous promise: “I shall return.”
MacArthur had a great sense of the dramatic, but it went deeper than that. When the war in the Pacific turned, American troops began to fight their way back toward the Philippines. Some advisers in the Pacific theater felt it was foolish to try to go back. “Just bypass the Philippines, and go on.” they said. But MacArthur felt a sense of history—a promise had been made. He went back to Leyte Gulf, and you may remember the famous Life magazine photograph as MacArthur, with his adjutant at his side, stepped on the beach at Leyte to keep a promise. Keeping promises is important!
of my favorite children’s story writers is Dr. Seuss. The best character in Dr.
Seuss has got to be Horton the elephant. I love that guy. Remember that flaky bird who left her egg
with Horton and said, “Would you watch this egg please?” She leaves that egg and never comes
back. Horton stays with that egg until
it hatches. He’s a wonderful
mother. Remember that great line Dr.
Seuss gives to Horton, when his friends tried to get him off of that nest? He says,“I meant what I said, and I said what I
meant. An elephant is faithful 100 percent”
Easter comes to remind us of the one thing that we need to always remember: God Meant What He Said And He Said What He Meant. God Is Faithful 100 Percent!
He Promised Abraham That All Nations Would Be Blessed Through Him. And He Kept That Promise.
He Promised Isaac That The Promise Would Live Through Him. And He Kept That Promise.
He Promised Jacob That The Promise Would Live Through His Descendants. And He Kept That Promise.
He Promised David That The Messiah Would Come Through His Family. And He Kept That Promise.
He Promised Joseph And Mary Their Son Would Save The World From Their Sins. And He Kept That Promise.
a wonderful time to remember that God keeps His promises to us. Easter isn’t about new clothes and dinners
and egg hunts. Easter Is About Jesus—The One Who
Keeps His Word To Us. The
angel says to the women, “He is alive.” Notice, that Jesus of Nazareth is alive. The one they had put their hope in.
no mistake about it. It’s not a phantom-spiritualized-Christ the angel is
talking about. It’s Jesus of
Nazareth. This is the historical name of
our Lord—His name, plus the city, Nazareth.
Jesus of Nazareth is alive. He
has conquered death. He will meet his
friends in Galilee, As He Said He Would.“Do
you remember what he told you? It’s all
That’s what the angel said. Jesus keeps his word. I want to reflect upon the amazing fact that Jesus still keeps His promise. God Meant What He Said And He Said What He Meant. God Is Faithful 100 Percent
1. He Loved Us Then, He Loves Us Now, And He Will Always Love Us—Just Like He Said He Would.
Before the Cross, Jesus said in John 15:12-13, This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you. There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. The fact of the Cross is nearly 2000 years old. If He loved us while He hung on that Cross—and He did love us—do you really think at any point now he will stop loving us?
Nothing You Can Do Now Will Make God Love You More Than When Jesus Hung On The Cross.
And Nothing You Can Do Now Will Make God Love You Less Than When Jesus Hung On The Cross.
You can count on God’s love. 1 John 4:15 says, “We know how much God loves us, and we have
put our trust in his love. God is love.”
God is offering us all a love relationship because He is love. His love is not an emotional, mushy
feeling. His love is that radical
transforming love that changes us back into His Image. His love never fails, never gives up on that
God Meant What He Said And He Said What
He Meant. God Is Faithful 100 Percent.
2. God Will Forgive Us—Just
Like He Said He Would.
In Luke 23:34 we read, “Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” Remember where Jesus said this! He wasn’t writing a book when He said it. He wasn’t leading a motivational seminar when He said it! It wasn’t on the Mount of Transfiguration when He said it. It’s wasn’t during Triumphal Entry a week earlier when He said it.
On That Cross, That’s Where He Said It.
In The Middle Of That Pain, He Said It.
While People Were Mocking Him, He Said It.
While Soldiers Were Gambling For His Clothes, He Said It.
And Whatever Sin Has Not Been Confessed And Repented Of Today In Your Life, Jesus Says It To You: “Father, forgive him, he doesn’t know what he is doing.” “Father, forgive her, because she doesn’t have a clue.”
Forgiveness was extended from the Cross to everyone who had a part in that Horrible AND Glorious Day. Forgiveness did not end on that day. Forgiveness continues to be extended to all people in all times in all places. Not just to those around that Cross, but to us as well.
God Meant What He Said And He Said What He Meant. God Is Faithful 100 Percent.
3. Finally, God Will Stay With Us—Just Like He Said He Would.
Jesus said in Matthew 28:20, “And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” The Tomb was empty then because He was alive. There are all kinds of speculations about where the tomb of Jesus was around Jerusalem. Several spots claim to be the tomb of Jesus. Some say, “It’s here.” Some say, “No, it’s over here.” Others say, “No, it over there.” But do you know know what? That doesn’t matter—because He’s not in tomb. Tombs are for dead people.
Stalin is still in a burial vault.
Mohammed is still in a burial vault in the city of Medina.
Abraham Lincoln is buried in Springfield, Illinois
Sigmund Freud’s remains are in London.
Princess Diana’s tomb is in Althrop, England
Who’s in Grant’s Tomb? I don’t know and I don’t care!
And I Don’t Care About Which Place Jesus Was Buried.
Truth is, He’s alive. Tomb’s don’t matter for Jesus! He conquered death, and now He seeks to live in the hearts and lives of those who accept Him. Jesus Lives Today, and He comes to live in us by the Holy Spirit because
God Meant What He Said And He Said What He Meant. God Is Faithful 100 Percent.
Spend a moment now, thinking about that. Stop and think about God’s faithfulness. On Resurrection Sunday, There Is Only 1 Next Step For All of Us.
Walk Towards Jesus! Think about this: What would it look like in your life if you spend the rest of your life walking with Jesus?
How Would You Spend Your Time?
What Would You Be Doing With Your Life?
How Would You Make This Community Better?
How Would You Treat Other People?
How Would You React When Life Becomes Difficult?
Away From Jesus, Surrender Your Life To Him.
Can you really walk away this morning of all mornings, when we remember
God Meant What He Said And He Said What He Meant. God Is Faithful 100 Percent!
Can you really put off going deeper in your relationship with Jesus? How can you hold back a part of you knowing that God Meant What He Said And He Said What He Meant. God Is Faithful 100 Percent.
The Eternal Name—The Name for all generations to remember—The Name that God has chosen to reveal to us all is YAHWEH—I Am! His Name says that He exists as Himself. He isn’t shaped or twisted by our own ideas and conceptions. Whatever it is that we may think about HIM, doesn’t change who He really is. Whatever you say about God doesn’t change Him. Whatever you may believe about God, does not change the identity and nature of our God.
He is who HE says He is; not
necessarily who we think He is and not necessarily who others say He is. He exists as He truly is—
In Indescribable Glory,
Pure, Uncontaminated Beauty
And All This In Awesome And Breathtaking Majesty.
He has never been weaker nor stronger than He is right now in eternity, nor will He ever be. Think about the changes that have happened in the history of humanity. We have gone from walking everywhere to riding a horse to an automobile, to flying across the skies, even made the journey to the moon and back.
about all the changes that have happened just in your lifetime. Yet, God has never ever changed—not even a
fraction. He Is Constant And
Consistent To The Point We Really Cannot Describe All That He Is. This Is The Eternal Name For All Generations
As we have been looking through John’s Gospel, Jesus has been publicly using His Eternal Name. And it has caused a lot of discomfort and anger with the Pharisees because we are not supposed to say that name—even though God wants His Eternal Name remembered by all generations.
They felt like, “We can’t have this guy going around calling himself God. We’ve got to put a stop to it. We’ve tried to be reasonable. We’ve tried to show that He’s a phony, but many don’t believe us. We must put an end to Jesus!” So they begin to formulate their plans, but what they don’t understand is that God already has a plan. They want to wait until AFTER Passover, but God has ordained that this Passover is THE time for THE perfect sacrifice that will end all sacrifices. And now, it is time for THE Passover. Jesus has gathered His inner circle in that upper room. Everything is in place and they think it’s just another Passover. They know the ritual; after all, they grew up with it. But Jesus now changes everything. In public He had been using the Eternal Name, and now in a very private moment, He uses it once more. Let’s turn to John 14:1-7 (NLT)
let your hearts be troubled. Trust in
God, and trust also in me. There
is more than enough room in my Father’s home.
If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a
place for you? When
everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with
me where I am. And you know
the way to where I am going.”
“No, we don’t know, Lord,” Thomas said. “We have no idea where you are going, so how can we know the way?” Jesus told him, “I am The Way, The Truth, And The Life. No one can come to the Father except through me. If you had really known me, you would know who my Father is. From now on, you do know him and have seen him!”
that Jesus said He is–The Great I Am—The Living Bread, The Light Of
The World, The Door, The Good Shepherd—is so true—truer than you may
even realize. But here, in a private and
intimate moment, Jesus reveals the Deepest Part Of The Heart Of God. He Doesn’t Say This In Public,
But Rather To Those Hearts That Are Longing For God’s Heart.
This leads me to The one thing you need to remember: You Do Not Follow Jesus In Order To Love Him. You Love Him In Order To Follow Him.
comes first—before the following. But—If
you follow Jesus in order to love Him, it becomes a list of rules and things to
do. This way becomes legalistic. And
after a while, you either love the rules more than you love Him; or you will
But…if you love Jesus first—it gives you the desire to follow Him. Here is how it works: You see His beauty and that Beauty pulls you in deeper. Then You Begin Seeking His Beauty, And His Heart So That You May Be Transformed BY His Beauty INTO His Beauty. In Other Words, You Follow Him!
In this very sacred moment, Jesus says something to every heart. For inside every heart is that deep, deep longing to be near to and close to God’s very heart. The heart knows what the heart needs but the problem is we don’t always listen to it. Many try to ignore it, but the longing is still there. Others try to fill it with everything else, but the heart is still empty. Jesus Knows What Their Hearts Long For, Thirst For, Hunger For—So He Reveals What Every Heart Around That Table Longs To Know. And it is true in your heart. Listen with your heart what Jesus is saying to it.
1. He Is The Way!
When Jesus said He is The Way He means He is the ONLY way to find release from the guilt and shame of our sin. And we have to get rid of all that sin because it’s standing in the way of us entering God’s heart and God entering our heart. He Is That Entrance Into Freedom From All That Holds Us Back, All That Puts Us In Bondage, And All That Chains Us To Fear And Condemnation. Jesus is the only entrance to God’s heart. Contrary to the view of many, there are not many ways to discover God.
There is only ONE way and that way is Jesus. And The Way is a Journey, and The Journey is first to fall in love with God. Not what He does. And not by falling in love with His ways. Falling in love with God—with HIM! Being captivated by His Glory—which is His love for you. Until you see HIS Glory—you cannot love Him the way He deserves to be love Once we are in love with HIM, then He is The Way that leads us into that Holy Journey with God. The Way means that God invites us into this Journey with Him.
It Is A Journey Filled With Adventure And Excitement Where God Uses Us To Reveal Jesus To Our World.
A Journey That Can Be Difficult At Times, Especially When Things Don’t Work Out
Like We Hoped, And Even When We Can’t See Where This Journey Will Lead Us.
It’s The Journey That Requires We Surrender Control To Him. It’s The Journey Where We Will Be Stretched
That Journey Where At Times The Only Thing We Can Hold On To Is God Himself. It May Even Be Frightening To Some.
But It’s Not A Journey We Make Alone. Jesus Is Right Here With Us Every Step Of The Way.
didn’t say “I am the pew.” But many
treat Jesus that way; confident and comfortable in the pew. But Jesus didn’t say that, He said, “I Am The
Way!” He invites us to travel this road
called Grace, and it’s a road that is meant to be a life time journey. Along the journey we will see, do and
experience so many things. The journey
at the end will be different than at the beginning. But one thing will remain throughout this
lifetime journey: Jesus walks every step
with us. It’s the journey with Jesus
where He leads us to wherever and whatever He wants for us.
2. He Is The Truth
Since it is The Journey that Jesus invites us into, we need some guideposts, road signs that help us keep us on the right path for The Journey. And here is what it looks like to call Jesus The Truth.
The Truth Is He Has Saved Us And Forgiven Us Completely And Not A Single Sin Brought Under His Blood Exists In His Heart Or Memory.
The Truth Is He Lives In Us To Empower Us.
The Truth Is He Gives Us A Holy Calling And Task That He Wants And Expects Us To Do.
The Truth Is He Holds Us Accountable To Share The Grace He Has So Extravagantly Given To Each Of Us.
Truth Is We Live Each Moment Of Each Day By And IN The Truth.
The Truth Is That People Are More Important Than Things—Jesus Did Things For People Even If It Violated The Way Things Had Always Been Because People Are More Important Than Things.
The Truth That We Must Grow In This Grace—Grow More Confident—Grow Wiser About The Truth—Applying The Truth In Real Life Situations.“What Would Jesus Do?” is more than a cute saying for shirts, bracelets and bumper stickers, it’s the way we live and respond to every situation life throws at us.
The Truth Is Persistent And Consistent For All Times, Places And People. It Doesn’t Change Or Fluctuate With The Times, Nor The Culture.
The Truth Is That Service And Sacrifice Are Part Of The Way. Service And Sacrifice Are What Truly Marks Us As Disciples Of Jesus And Members Of The Body Of Christ.
This Truth—Lived By Jesus Every Day He Walked This Earth As One Of Us—Is The Anchor For Every Age, Every Generation, And Every Moment Of Every Day We Walk This Earth.
Jesus As The Truth Is More Than A Creed Or Belief. It is the convictions that hold us, hold us closely when we need assurance of God’s love—and that challenges us to follow Jesus in The Way! The Truth Is That Jesus Is The Alpha And Omega, The First And The Last, The Beginning And The End. And whatever it is we do as believers in Christ, makes each day all about him and not anything about us!
Truth isn’t a weapon we use
against others. It’s the discipline that
reminds us that we are in love with God—and that God is in love with us.
3. He Is The Life!
The Life gives the journey meaning. It is The Life that should be the force
that makes our feet hit the floor every morning. Jesus is The Life that brings us to life with
a passion and excitement to be a part of what God is doing in our world.
people are waiting to die. They have
given up on the excitement and adventure of life. If Jesus is really in your heart, you don’t
have to wait to die to experience life, but you can start living, really living
with that sense of joy, purpose and anticipation of all that God wants to show
you every day. Jesus didn’t suffer and die
on that Cross for you to be sad and miserable; cranky and whiney; to grumble
His Life Is About Life That
Has An Eternal Meaning In The Here And Now. Jesus wants you to live and breathe, not
exist. And The Life is offered to you through
The Gift—the Gift of Perfect Love when Jesus went to the Cross to die for
you. But He didn’t just die for you—He
conquered death for you, too.
And the Resurrection Life isn’t just for that day when
the body dies. The Resurrection Life Is For Here
And Now. It begins with the Journey.
And the Journey begins with falling love with God. God is in love with YOU. Not with what you can do or ought to do. He is in love with YOU right now! Jesus is The Way into that love. Truth reminds us of this—that God is in love
with us. Truth isn’t a set of creeds—it
is more—Truth is a Person—Jesus Christ—And this makes Truth a Love
Relationship. This Is The Life!
is knowing we are loved by God—being in love with God—in the way that causes us
to be His Agents, Agents of Redemption for the world.
Are you simply waiting to die? Do you feel
that life has become too hard to do anything significant? Do you think it was easy for Jesus to forgive
the crowd while hanging on that cross?
Stop waiting to die—decide today to begin living.
What are you doing that is life-giving to others? Have you heard
of that TV series The Walking Dead? It’s
about the Zombie Apocalypse. Some call
it science fiction. It’s truer than you
may realize. The Walking Dead are all
around us. The thing is they don’t look
like those zombies on TV—they look like us.
But they are dead on the inside.
Well, this morning I’m waiting to leave to take my lovely wife, Debbie, to the surgery center for some minor surgery. You do know the difference between minor and major surgery, don’t you? Minor surgery is what someone else has–major surgery is what I have! No seriously, I do not take what is about to happen to her lightly. I’ve read those “disclaimers” about all that can go wrong. Really, no surgery is minor. But let me quickly get to the point.
Debbie has been having chronic sinusitis. And it’s not only affected her sinuses, but also fluid has built up behind her right ear drum, making it difficult to hear. Besides, everyone knows how annoying it is to have all that stuff behind an ear drum, am I right? Scans revealed a small cyst on the right side of her sinuses that is causing that sinus fluid back up, all the way to her ear. Dr. David told us that by removing that small cyst, it should allow all that fluid to drain out. Her body will function as it is designed, and hopefully this works. Otherwise, it may require the insertion of tubes to keep that nasty and annoying fluid from impairing her ability to hear.
Well, what does all that have to do with the Kingdom Life? I’m so glad you asked. The fluid behind her ear, that feeling of her ears being “stopped up”, started somewhere else. Her sister and I offered to put a vacuum cleaner up to her ear and see if we could suction that fluid out. She didn’t go for it.
You see, the problem isn’t in her ear. The source of the problem is somewhere else. Can you see a spiritual truth developing here? Until the cause is fixed, the problem persists. It’s easy to get fixated on what others are doing wrong. The chaos of my Tribe right now is being caused by this very thing. By pointing the finger at what others are doing wrong, it’s easy, so very easy to ignore what’s wrong with us. We think that the ills of our culture can be fixed if we can just get all those others “fixed”
Well, guess what. Treating symptoms will not cure the illness. Ask Debbie about this. Multiple shots and rounds of decongestants, antibiotics and multiple shots haven’t done a thing for all that fluid behind her ear drum. The problem is somewhere else–something growing where it shouldn’t be growing. So Dr. David is going to remove that “shouldn’t be there foreign object” so that her sinuses and ears can function like they are designed. Until that cyst is removed, nothing will be as it should.
Have you had your “AHA!” of where all this is going? If you haven’t, then let me draw you a picture; and explain it with a passage, actually a song written by one of the most prolific song writers ever: Psalm 139:23-24 (NLT)
Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.
Without Dr. David having ordered the CT scan, without the radiologist knowing how to interpret the results, Debbie’s only hope would be more of the same–meds and shots. But those will not solve her problem. That foreign-it-doesn’t-belong-there object needs to be removed. I wish I could take her place and let the doctor work on me–but that won’t solve her problem.
Truth Time: I’m good at hiding the truth about me from myself. I’m better at hiding the truth about me from others. And so are you–unless we follow the advice of this song: “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you.”
But don’t stop there. That next line is the all important one: “and lead me along the path of everlasting life.” The truth is that for God to lead us along that path of everlasting life, sometimes there are things that get in the way of us following. There’s a technical term for those things that get in the way of following Jesus. It’s called SIN. Sin is that foreign object that gets in the way of us living the way God designed us to live.
So, today, focus on this Psalm. Ask God to point out those nasty, annoying “cysts” that’s getting in the way and causing problems, lots of problems. Then yield and submit to that Divine Surgical Procedure we called “Redemption”. Allow Him to remove that sin in your life. Oh, and be sure you go back for regular “scans”, the struggle against sin isn’t over, yet. But it will be some day–it will be!
Love God with all your heart. Love others the way Jesus loves you. And make sure all the glory goes to Him!
My dear Sister and Brother Centrists and Progressives in the United Methodist Church,
I do not know if you will read this or not. But sometimes…sometimes the heart must speak. I will be honest with you upfront: I am first and foremost, a servant in the Kingdom of God. This submission to the Rule of God is absolute and unconditional; though at times I am rebellious and disobedient. I am secondly, an Orthodox Methodist, a label that has been put upon me, yet I wear it with humility and honor. Knowing this about me, you are now free to stop reading and make up your mind about me, without ever knowing what I will say. Based upon past behavior, I will not be surprised if some of you do just that; but for you who are still reading, please allow me the grace you say you so deeply believe in, be given to me as well.
I have a question ONLY for Centrists and Progressives.
“Why should I remain in the United Methodist Church, a church I have loved, supported and serve in the name of God’s Kingdom, when so many of you hate me?”
I am sincere in this question. I acknowledge, with much shame as a follower of Jesus, that some who say they follow Jesus have said and continue to say hurtful and hateful things at the LBGTQIA community. And to my United Methodist sisters and brothers who have said those things, please, go join the Westboro Baptist Church. If you live too far away, start a local chapter. I’m sure they would be glad to become a multi-campus church.
Allow me to also say to my Sisters and Brothers who are Centrists and Progressives in the United Methodist Church, what I am about to say is not a blanket, “one-size-fits-all” comments. Some of you share the love and grace professed to even those who do not agree with you theologically. And to you who practice what you preach, please accept my gratitude for your consistency.
Alas, not all show the love and grace they profess. Rev. Tom Berlin has compared me, and my sisters and brothers in Christ, to a virus. More specifically, an Ebola Virus. Furthermore Rev. Berlin, under the banner of love and grace, you said that unless the UMC credentials the LBGTQIA members, then my credentials should be removed. You see, Rev. Berlin, I have been divorced…and remarried. Sir, you are right, myself and the gay community do share something in common. We are sinners. My sin isn’t any worse than any other sin. Sinners are equal at the foot of the cross.
Rev. Berlin, I have confessed my sin of divorce (along with several other sins). This means I agree with God, that it is sin in my life. I have also repented. I have turned away from ever divorcing again. And I turned to the only place I knew I would find grace–at the feet of Jesus. He forgave me. I even went through a process with my annual conference who held me accountable to confession and repentance. And now, Rev. Berlin, though I have confessed, repented and turned back to follow God with all my heart, you say I am unfit (after all, that’s what taking away my credentials because of divorce means) even though I’ve gone through God’s process for sinners, and the church’s process to continue in ministry. Though I and my LBGTQIA sisters and brothers share the bond of sin, I have admitted my sin, while the LBGTQIA refuse such an acknowledgement. See, Rev. Berlin, though we are the same–we are different in how we choose to deal with whatever that sin may be. Because I choose to admit it, I’m mean and unloving? Really?
And to Rev. Adam Hamilton, you choose to belittle me and those like me. You consistently espoused hate at us in St. Louis. And afterwards, your accusations continue to flow. You say I am homophobic (though I have friends who are gay). You say I treat them like second-class citizens (though I cried with someone who lost their partner, because we are friends).
You say I am refusing them grace (though I have served them Holy Communion and will continue to do so). You insist that I am full of hate because I choose to believe the Truth about marriage. That I am hateful because I cannot embrace a theory that isn’t even accepted in the behavioral science community. I am accused of not caring, all because I believe and am convinced that the Bible clearly defines marriage as a man and a woman. Rev. Hamilton, you say that I am not open to the Holy Spirit because I believe in the Biblical teachings on sexual ethics. I did not realize that God had given up the right to judge of my heart and given it to you.
I did not watch all of the 2019 General Conference, but I did watch a lot of it. I’ve also read the blogs, read the Tweets, and listened to the videos. After it all, I am left with only one conclusion: I am hated by the majority of United Methodists in my own country; this according to Rev. Hamilton. Even my former Bishop, Will Willimon, says that I am the problem–because I am over 40 years old.
So, my Centrist and Progressive Sisters and Brothers in Christ, I will ask you again:
“Why should I remain in the United Methodist Church, a church I have loved, supported and serve in the name of God’s Kingdom, when so many of you hate me?”
For a child
is born to us, a son is given to us. The
government will rest on his shoulders.
And he will be called: Wonderful
Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. His government and its peace will never
end. He will rule with fairness and
justice from the throne of his ancestor David for all eternity. The passionate commitment of
the Lord of Heaven’s Armies will make this happen!
One of the things I enjoy doing is riding my bike. And while planned routes and organized rides are fun, sometimes I simply enjoy heading out one direction then making several turns before coming home on a different route. I will head north for a while, then east for a while before turning south and then to the west. I know that somewhere along the way I will find a familiar road that will take me home. Several years ago my wife Debbie joined me on such an adventure. We headed north on Highway 43 past Lawrenceburg, Tennessee, then I turned east, and then north again, and then east again. We came to a 4 way stop and I asked her, “Do you know where we are?” She said, “No, where are we?” And I said, “I haven’t a clue.” She replied, “No, really, where are we?” And I said, “Really, I don’t know. But if we go in that direction, we should find our way back home.” I don’t think she was real happy with me, or even believed me. I didn’t know where we were, but I knew a different way would get us home.
to work or going shopping—we tend to always travel the same way, seldom if ever,
considering a different route. Now that
Christmas Day has passed and all the refunds and exchanges are complete, and
all the After-Christmas Sales have been seen, many people think it is time to
go back to the dull routines of everyday life.
We have come face to face with the truth of Messiah—that God is with us.
But now many think it’s time to get back into our normal routines—Routines That Often Leave Us Feeling Tired, Frustrated, Unhappy, Unsatisfied; And If We Will Be Honest With Ourselves, It Leaves Us Feeling Empty. More often than not, the word we hear after Christmas is, “I’m glad it’s over!” And in January, the depression sets in with all those credit card bills.
In the season of Christmas we are brought face to face with God—we have had multiple encounters with the wonder of His grace—a variety of signs and symbols with one single message: The God of All Eternity has completely revealed Himself by becoming one of us. Every bit of God’s being and heart has been revealed in the most extraordinary act ever best described by Isaiah: For a Child is born to us, a Son is given to us. These words are the words of the Mystery Of Incarnation. In a precise moment of time The Child Is Born—This Is The Humanity Of Jesus. Rather than assuming we know that He understands us, God shows us He understands us by becoming us!
And at the same moment The Son Is GivenTo Us—Jesus Is Also Divine. The two natures, human & Divine, are forged together in the womb of Mary and breaks into our world that night in a stable near Bethlehem. The Child—He’s human; The Son—He’s Divine. The Child speaks about the life of Jesus and The Son speaks about the death of Jesus.
this is the mystery that we are called to accept and embrace—God fully reveals
His Awesome Love for in a single moment of time by becoming both The Child and The Son! The Mystery is that
God loves us so much that He enters the stench and the filth not just of that
stable, but into the stench and filth of our broken, sinful, dirty lives.
If you can remember only 1 thing today, this is it: He Doesn’t Just Come To Visit Us—He Doesn’t Come TO Us—Mystery Of All Mysteries—He Comes, Now Listen: He Comes FOR US! God doesn’t just wave to us as He passes by like Miss America or the Pope or all those New Year’s Day Parade Queens. God doesn’t just glance over at us, nod His head at us and then goes on. He doesn’t come to us as He did when Moses saw only the backside of God’s glory. God comes to us face to face and heart to heart.
And the government will rest on His
shoulders. Our sin excludes us from the Kingdom of
God—so to bring us into the Kingdom, it all depends on Jesus. There was more than the weight of the Cross
on Jesus’ shoulders—it was the weight of God’s predetermined plan to bring to
us rebels into His Rule by putting to rest once and for all time the sins of
all peoples in all ages.
felt like the weight of the family was on your shoulders? Ever felt like the weight of a project at
work was on your shoulders? But try to
imagine that the plan, rule and dominion of God’s eternal Kingdom resting on
your shoulders. God’s eternal purpose is
carried on the shoulders of Jesus. God
has no plan “B”!
in the filth and stench of that stable, in the filth and stench of our lives,
we encounter the mystery of grace.
Isaiah says, “He will be called”
and the Hebrew word comes from another word that means To Encounter.
We Have This Indescribable Encounter With The One Who IS Wonderful! It really is
an incredible moment to come face to face with Grace!
We Encounter The Counselor! The timeless wisdom and knowledge of God is
placed right smack dab in the middle of our broken world.
We Encounter The Mighty God! We come face to face with Him who holds all
power in His hand and unleashes that power in the form of Love!
We Encounter The Everlasting Father! We encounter the only one who will never ever
give up on us! Love, grace and mercy
that is Never Ending!
We Encounter The Prince Of Peace! He gives us peace not because of what we have
done, but because of everything that He has done for us.
There are other ways He has made Himself known to us. He’s been making Himself known through all our activities this Season.
In the exchanging of gifts God has been offering to exchange our guilt and powerlessness for the gift of forgiveness and new life.
God has made himself known to us through the poor and hungry with the reminder that when we do it unto the least of these we do it unto Him.
In the bright Christmas lights He has made Himself known as the Light that Shines in the Darkness.
In the parties and family dinners God as made Himself known as the One who will one day bring us to the Great Banquet Feast.
In the beautiful decorations that adorn homes God has made Himself known as the only One who is able to adorn our lives with the beauty of holiness.
Even in cleaning up the torn paper and boxes, God has made Himself known as the One who takes out the trash of our lives to make room for what really matters.
is our encounter with God—God who has come FOR us. Now, you have a choice. You can go back the way you came into this
encounter, back to your ordinary life—back to the deadlines and pressures—back
to all that stuff that really never completely satisfies us. Or, you can go back into the real world, a
Think about those Wise Men. In Matthew 2:11-12 (NLT)—They entered the house and saw the child with his mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasure chests and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. When it was time to leave, they returned to their own country by another route, for God had warned them in a dream not to return to Herod.
The only way we can go back a different way is to become a different person. When the Wise Men arrived back home, what do you suppose they talked about? The sand storms they faced? The beautiful oases that would surprise them in their journey? The beautiful palace of Herod? That spectacular Temple in Jerusalem? The wonderful eating places they found? Or the eating places you don’t want to stop at?
don’t know exactly what they talked about, but I can’t help but think and
believe that they talked about their encounter with God through The Child that
was given, and The Son that they saw in person.
And it should be the same for us.
This morning you are faced with a choice. Go back to the old life, the usual things,
the ordinary things.
Or you can go back to your daily life a different way by choosing to become a different person. Come to the manger, then walk with Jesus and listen as He teaches and watch Him as He works. Then spend some time at the Cross.
on the wounds and bruises of Jesus.
Focus on the nails. Focus on the
crown of thorns that pierced His head.
Then focus—focus on that face—watch His lips move and listen as He says
“Father, forgive them.” Now, how can you
be the same person who walked in that door this morning?
This Child, This Son who is Wonderful,
Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince Of Peace—this is
the one that the Wise Men came to see—and this is the One they
encountered. And when they encountered
Him they went home a different way. It
was more than just the threats of Herod; it was that They Were Now Different People.
people can’t travel the same road home—they go a different way. The
mystery of Incarnation, God in the flesh, changed Mary, changed Joseph, changed
the Shepherds, changed the Wise Men, changed the whole world! And It
Ought To Change Us!
Throughout this Advent and Christmas season, God has made Himself known
They went home a different way because they were different people. The different way is for people who are now different, changed by embracing the Mystery: He is The Child and The Son who comes FOR us. This Different Way changes everything. 3 things should change in our lives:
1. It Changes How We Think About Life!
is now more than calendars, appointments and time clocks. Life is meant to be about relationship—with
God first and then in relationships with others. Because of The Child, because of The Son,
life isn’t about us and what we want.
It’s all about Him and what He desires for us and the world.
2. It Changes How We See Life!
See your life in light of what God can do, not what
you can accomplish. Start looking at
situations and problems the way God sees them—as opportunities for growth. Start seeing people the way God sees them—people
in need of His Mercy, Grace and Love. Stop Seeing
Life As A Sentence To Be Endured But Rather An Adventure To Be Discovered.
3. It Changes How We Live Life!
Make your life an offering to
God. Make every thought, form every
word, make every choice as an offering to God.
Listen to how The Message puts it in Rom. 12:1-2:
So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. (emphasis mine)
Robert Frost wrote a poem entitled: The Road Not Taken. He talks about walking along a path in the woods when he encounters a fork in the path. Two paths are in front of him—one obviously traveled frequently and the other was less traveled. In the last verse he writes these famous words: “I shall be telling this with a sigh. Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.” You are about to go home, back into the world, your world. Which way will you go?
Your Next Step
Decide if you will go back to life the
same way, or a different way because seeing God with you has made you a